Thursday, 27 May 2010

Don’t blame the nation. It’s all in your mind !

Knowledge of specifics always aids in the right interpretation of facts and making pragmatic judgments (- I just made that up!)


It was an evening of subtle arguments and debates that went over few glasses of beer. On a dull Saturday evening in the North American continent, with the horizon covered with snow bed, the eerie silence that haunted the evening, all I needed was to hear some human noise, which is when I called on few friends to meet up. Consensus led us to a nearby sports bar with a reasonable ambiance for a quick drink.


[Traditionally] as the person who misses his homeland more than the rest, I started my bit of conversation stating "I miss India!". (… Feel the music-"Yeh Jo Des hai tera" from the movie ‘Swades’). I was joined by the rest praising the Indian weather, the family and relatives back home and some sharing their specific experiences during their days in India. These lasted over the first pitcher of beer.


It took a while for an enthusiast in the group to feel the alcohol react in his blood and eventually taking control of his brain, I suppose. He goes on to add the most (obviously) talked about "Problems" with India - “Corruption", "Bad roads" and "Dumb People". The last one was slightly exaggerated by me!


At the spur of the moment, I burst out laughing and I was joined by the rest of my comrades. To set something straight, the laugh was nothing personal on my friend, it was just the topic, which is the most obvious one spoken by many NRI's or potential NRI's who, at the specific moment, would have just started dreaming of a career and life outside of India.


My fellow mate, trying to sound very normal, tried explaining his stand about the conditions in India. You can make a wild guess about the kind of discussions, arguments and statements made during the conversation.


Comparing India to the western world in a positive note, in an attempt to foresee potential growth, can be much appreciated. However, most of the comparisons bear negative tone in it. How can we expect a country diversified in terms of various cultures, religions, beliefs and being the second largest population of the world, and still around 60 years post independence, to be at the same economic and development level as those of the modernized western world? All it requires is some amount of thought process to realize this fact.


India - a country ruled by the British for decades, without a self governance structure in place, having seen the brutality of racism, slavery and a lifestyle filled with fear of internal and external forces, has come a long way in attaining freedom and self governance. With the rulers leaving the nation, India also had to fight through internal politics for decades before it could form a strong government that can at least sustain its national demand for food and growth in terms of economy, military and research & development. It did take the nation appreciable amount of effort to being called a potentially strong economic power of the world.

If we step back for a moment and recall the history, we can trace the stages through which India has traveled to its present state of development:

  • The pre-independence movements
  • Formation of Indian National Congress
  • The post independence era
  • Partition of India
  • Assassination of powerful leaders
  • Formation of stable government
  • Border wars with China and Pakistan
  • Globalization
  • Development and launch of India’s first missile (Prithvi)


Amidst the above events, haven’t we seen significant developments that we have made as a nation?

I don’t deny the fact that lot of control and change is required on the present concerns of "Corruption" and "Infrastructure". Parts of the world with an impressive infrastructure development have taken support from the World Bank (or other powerful nations) to an extent of four or more times their GDP. India stands out of this equation and still have managed to be recognized as a potential powerful nation, maintaining a moderated tax structure for its citizens.


In a western world, you will be surprised to see the level of taxation and the amount one has to spend on insurance (of all sorts). Of course, that is the price you pay for a life of luxury and comfort. India has exempted its citizens from these and hence can consider it as a trade-off. Decision of living in a specific part of the world is a personal choice. However, that should not come with an in-sensitive comparison of the nation with a highly developed nation. Think about this, if one can compare India with a developed country, would it be even close to reality if we compared Ethiopia (or Afghanisthan) with (today's) super power, USA?


All these happened over three pitchers of beer (to the best of my conscious memory as I can recall!). We split around close to midnight with each of us feeling rejuvenated, not because of the beer, rather the fact that we could beat the Saturday evening snow and recall our wonderful days back in India. As one of my friend put's it, "The days when the sky was blue and the grass was green"!

11 comments:

  1. somebody told me a interesting story of a toad who lives in a well and for him the entire world is that well.

    I think wen i was in india i was like a toad, yes i have come out of the well and seen some world, but i dont think i am too happy about leaving my well.

    Thank god for making beer, and yeah truely
    "gone are the days wen the grass was green and the sky was blue" :)

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  2. First of all I would like to thank you for publishing this article. I like it not because I closely analysed the actual situation of India and Developed western countries but because I needed somebody to talk about this.

    I was/am certainly not happy with the situation in India but this blog will definitely help me to look at the brighter side of India.

    Grass is still green here but for most of the people it is always greener on the other side :)

    This will help me to change my perspective.

    Thanks Sanal!!

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  3. The scene that comes to my mind is from RDB.. The bar scene.. 'Koi desh perfect nahi hota.. use perfect ban na padtha hain..' :-)

    Gud article, Sanal.. keep going.. Wishing you more interesting topics in the weekends to come..

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  4. Hi Sanal,

    I like the way you narrate.Deep thinking well said with intelligent reasoning. Specially the ISCON flamboyance or publicity(previous post). It is the same i have seen in Chennai and was left to think if it had anything to do with the essence of what preached and practiced.
    Keep writing..

    All the Best !

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  5. Thanks for the appreciation. Will come up with new thoughts.
    U could also share about the cross cultural trends as u experience there. We know how grt it feels to be Indian..
    CIAO

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  6. Very very good article and very true too. Wow! What writing. I have come across people making statements like: "Look at so-and-so country, how clean it is", "There is no corruption in that country but look at India" and so on and so forth. A little effort from people will make a huge difference.
    And etta, did you write this right after you had the beer? I would like to try out writing an article too :-)

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  7. Hi Sanal, congratulations on a highly thoughtful blog that connects to very Indian, especially to the "guilty few" of us who have been able to land on "greener grass". In my humble opinion, the estimation of a nation cannot be higher than the estimation of the self itself. And what self-acclaim can we (hope to) have of ourselves? From childhood have we not been taught to live with baseless limitations and beliefs (“boys are better than girls”(age 4), “the teacher cannot be questioned” (age 10), "bribery is here to stay" (age 17) , “Pakistani’s are born-bad” (all ages now!)) ? Have we not been to live in false hope (“An MBBS/Engineering college seat is assurance of a golden future”)?

    Is it not true that the outpour/lamenting over present-day India in the blogs is really a soul-searching of ourselves because our inner mind is re-examining the validity of these assumptions now that we’ve seen the world outside? Are we not feeling guilty seeing relatively less qualified/gifted nations succeed, but our own India seems inferior in comparison? Is not everything from lack of international sports medals to bad roads to blue tape increasing our inner urge to do something about it that manifests as these blogs?

    And what is preventing us from taking action? Is it really our political system, ignorance or international vengeance against Indian? Or is it something that’s deep within ourselves that we know exists but having difficulty admitting? Could it be the “chaltha hai” attitude that we all seem to share as Indians? Could it be the selfishness (“I’m okay today, sorry to know the rest of the population is not doing well, here take this money, may tomorrow dawn better for you!”)? Are we not merely satisfied just watching movies (“Gandhi”, “Lagaan”) and dreaming them over and over again, than to actually make it happen? Are we not looking forward to people from unrelated backgrounds (scientists, industrialists, entrepreneurs, even cricketers and film stars!) to come forward and bear the burden of our national dream? Is it not more worth our time to think how we can better achieve it ourselves for India?

    Maybe what India needs is not more money, not more warplanes, not even more GDP but just more nationalism, more mutual respect and sacrifice ? And nationalism is a dangerous world given how humans have interpreted it (ask the Germans). So what does nationalism mean to “Desis”? Let’s say we ask every Indian (and he doesn’t need to be educated to do this) to articulate the first 5 things he wishes to do for himself and his country. And before he does remind him that if it were to come true there can be no room for conflict between his own interest, his family’s and his nation’s. If such a list were to be consolidated and interpreted for the masses then that is exactly what Indian nationalism will be. If it turns out to be lofty, which one doubts given that most Indians are very practical, the questions in our minds may be - are willing to trust our fellow citizens to author that list? Is the “average Indian” even capable of drafting such a list? Are we really willing to accept the reality of that baseline if it’s alarmingly below popular expectations? Can we sacrifice a bit of our own interests in mutual trust to build a nation that has long struggled to define itself to the world? When all these self-doubts disappear and the commitment is made (and trust me, it can happen- remember we won the cricket world cup, and we did launch Chandrayaan?), then the real India of dreams will emerge. No longer will these blogs talk about corruption, bad roads, terrorism or even money. These blogs will be talking about ecological balance, weapon stockpile destruction, global climatic control, international sky stations, extra-terrestrial life, our grandchildren’s honeymoon in Pakistan…and we will all leave present day discussions to the rest of the world, who may be the so-called super-powers of today.

    Have you made your wish list yet? I’m writing mine today.
    ~Suresh Natarajan

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  8. Good Stuff.

    However I have a different view - different to that of your friends and that of yours.

    Talking about Corruption etc is talking about the problem ie talking about I have Stomache ache, he has Chest pain etc. We are not talking about the root cause - which according to me is to do with Attitude ( derivative of culture, perhaps) and Magnitude. In other words we have to resolve the A&Ms to be a better country and earn respect from our own countrymen ( NRIs and RIs) and that of people from other countries ( even Afghanistan).

    Your approach to this topic of " all izz well & we who stay outside do not appreciate it " - is not what I subscribe to - because I really do not think "all izz well" with our country or countrymen - we have the potential to be destination of choice but we fail in key parameters - respect to humans especially women, basic infrastructure, effective governance to name a few.

    One generation has to sacrifice and work the shit and prepare to sacrifice lots to achieve greater heights for our country - otherwise we will continue be country of potholes and potbellies.

    We can discuss more on the A&Ms later....

    - Arup

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  9. Good one! I really liked the starting and ending, but in the middle it became a little too heavy for me.
    Keep blogging...

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  10. Nice work man.. you should keep at it...

    one thing I am happy to notice... you have not let IT kill your thinking process.. :-)

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  11. Our India is the most peace loving country and tolerates all religions,never crossed its borders to wage war against other countries, preaches for world peace and happiness of all mankind,concept of god and religion, rich ancient culture,unity in diversity etc... .There is no other country where you can find all these together.......
    Good things are more in number compared to a few bad things like corruption etc if we speak about our country.

    Very Good article Sanal...This has reallly touched my heart and made me more proud to be an Indian.

    Reshmy

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